Sunday, November 8, 2009

Anticipating the sting

Normally I get a nice little bump in my last five paychecks over the calendar year because I've already maxed out my annual FICA limit. That bump allowed me to sock away some extra cash in October and I'm expecting the same for November, but it turns out that I'm not going to be able to put away as much extra as I wanted without pretty much turning into Scrooge, because I have a bunch of different expenses all hitting at the same time. They include:

Doorman tips: $400
Holiday tips for building staff are customary and expected in New York. We have a small building staff, so I give each of them a holiday card containing $40 to $100. The porter gets the most because he does a demanding job heroically; the super gets the second most because I'm secretly not very impressed with him but at the same time need to be able depend on him to be responsive when I have non-emergency repairs. The doorfolk who are nice and friendly get more than the ones who sit there sullenly and don't make eye contact.

Food bank donation: $500
I raise money for the food bank from other people during the holiday season, so it's important to put my money where my own mouth is. This is a cause that really matters to me, so I consider it one of my fixed holiday expenses.

Other donations: $200
This is also the time of year that other people are doing fundraising, so I normally cough up $50 if it's a cause I believe in, sometimes less (e.g., a token $25) if I think the organization doesn't utilize its funds efficiently.

Homeowner's insurance: $250
Self-explanatory.

Passport renewal: $75
It's only once every ten years, but my passport expires in February so I'm already in the soup if I get asked to travel for work in the next couple of months. (We have a pretty strict travel ban on at the moment, so I'm not expecting it.)

Dentist: $200
Yay, I need another crown in December! I already maxed out my flexible spending plan, but about 70% will be covered by insurance as long as I don't get whacked in the upcoming layoff. If I do, this will cost a heck of a lot more.

Christmas gifts: $350
Ugh. I was almost entirely off the Christmas gift train for years, but I always give my mom restaurant gift certificates for Christmas and birthdays because she NEVER lets me pay when we go out. Beyond that, I need to get a couple of things for my SO and his kids. SO is good about agreeing on modest gifts, but he doesn't want to waive gift-giving altogether. I don't overdo gift-giving with his kids because I don't want them to see me as a gift machine or make either parent feel like I'm trying to compete, but there's no way I'd ever not give them Christmas and birthday gifts. Finally, I need to pony up something fairly respectable for SO's brother and his partner since they always include me in the annual family Broadway musical event.

Marathon travel: $150
Car rental, gas, meals, and hotel. I'm sharing a room with one person and pooling car rental and gas with three.

That works out to just about $2000, but there's not much I can do to bring it down other than skipping the marathon (not gonna happen), going completely bare-bones on gifts and doorman tips, and cutting out charitable donations. The FICA bump covers close to everything, but even if it didn't I've made my peace with it.

Do you have any special end of year expenses? What are they and how do you plan to cover them?

9 retorts:

Anonymous,  November 8, 2009 6:55 PM  

If you don't agree with the charitable purpose, why bother giving even token amounts? Also - have you tried restaurants.com to get gift certificates for less?

MtnMama November 8, 2009 7:56 PM  

Well, I gotta say that this year I'm really looking forward to coming up with under the tree presents for my 5 year old - by myself as an unemployed single parent. She still thinks Santa provides, and while I don't over-do it, I'm not ready to let her down. She isn't over inundated with stuff throughout the year; the Christmas thing has been a good delayed-gratification exercise.

Shawanda November 8, 2009 8:16 PM  

My loved ones know I don't do Christmas gifts, so they're not expecting anything. It'd be quite unfortunate if they somehow forgot.

I'm not looking forward to paying $120 (or around that amount) to renew my CPA license. It's not much, but I'd rather spend that money on something fun. I'll see if I can get my employer to reimburse me for it. If not, I'll just suck it up and eat the cost.

Oh, I have to buy a plane ticket to visit my family for Christmas. I won't complain about that at all.

Shadox November 8, 2009 9:44 PM  

Hey - I also got a new crown this month. Only my dentist charged me $600 or so AFTER the insurance paid its share.

I always wonder whether dentists "invent" some necessary repairs... yeah, I know, I'm cynical, but I figure there is a big financial incentive for them to go for procedures even if the benefits are marginal...

Penny in Australia,  November 9, 2009 5:35 AM  

No special end of year expenses for me. My family are not big on gifts. I am going to buy a gift for my sister though, a donation voucher to Kiva.org, a group I heard about a few months ago. My sister has started her own small business and was interested in donating to this organisation to help others start their own small businesses in less developed countries, so that will be my gift to her.

I do have an end-of-year/relationship break-up holiday scheduled for December. It's gonna be pretty un-frugal (about $2000 all up). I feel like I need to get away, but there have been times I've told myself off and thought 'don't waste money on a holiday!'. But then today, I got a call from a website where I frequently enter competitions... and it turns out I've won $1000!!! Could not believe my good fortune. Will put it towards my holiday and stop worrying.

I'm still on cloud nine!

Menopause Musings November 9, 2009 8:08 PM  

Luckily my family draws names for the adults and just buys for the little ones so Christmas isn't too bad. The mailman gets a little somthing and the paper girl, but that is about it. Thanks,

goldsmith,  November 10, 2009 4:37 AM  

The big end-of-year expense are the management fees for my apartment complex, at 1280 Euro for the upcoming calendar year. I take care of that by salting away 1000 Euro in one of the months where I have three pay periods, and pay the rest out of my current account.

The other big expenses are my winter holiday at home, what with ski rental, lift passes, instruction (still trying to improve my skiing at age 43!), Christmas and birthday gifts for my mother (usually fairly big as well).

Most of that goes onto the credit card, and is then getting paid off, usually by February. It's the only time of the year that I carry a balance, and honestly, I am not too fazed about it. But not skiing? That's like FZ not running her marathon.

Ashley November 11, 2009 12:27 PM  

This year I'm giving to my family as a group. I'm footing the bill ($50) for us to take family photos for the first time in a long time. The fact that it's a catch all will save me a bundle.

frugal zeitgeist November 11, 2009 9:03 PM  

Anon - I never said I donate to causes I don't agree with. That would be silly. I said that I donate token amounts when I'm not convinced the charity uses donations as efficiently as I'd like to see. In any case, part of the reason I do token donations when I might not otherwise is because I'm hitting up the same people on behalf of the food bank, and one hand washes the other if you know what I mean. Thanks for the suggestion on restaurant.com, by the way. Unfortunately, only two restaurants in my mom's city participate and neither one is on her seal of approval list.

MtnMama - I wish you the best of luck during a tough holiday season. Kudos to you for making it work.

Shawanda - I hope you can get your employer to cough up the cash but if you can't, the renewal sounds like an important investment in your career. Enjoy your visit with family over the holidays.

Shadox - This is why I still go to my hometown dentist: He charges half as much as I'd have to pay in New York, and I trust him to do the right thing with regards to necessary repairs. I guess this cost will vary depending on whether I need a gold crown or porcelain lined with gold. I have both already; it's getting to be like Aladdin's cave in there. With the price of gold at the moment, I might be estimating this cost too optimistically. Bah.

Penny - Congratulations on your big win, and I'm glad you are doing something nice for yourself!

Menopause Musings - Very sensible indeed. Thanks for sharing.

goldsmith - I've always wished I knew how to ski, and that sounds like a great use of holiday time and money. Have a wonderful time!

Ashley - that's a lovely idea and a very creative one. Thanks for sharing it.

  © Blogger templates The Professional Template by Ourblogtemplates.com 2008

Back to TOP